The count down is here: Christmas is coming

Christmas is coming soon…and that means the topic of Love and Belonging comes up, like it or not.

This can be a tough one for many people. This time of year is the best for others.
 
The holidays are a good season for those of us that have love in their life and feel a sense of belonging.

For those of us who do not feel a sense of belonging and feel they have failed at love, or feel unloved or unlovable, this time of the year is extra hard.

Some have love but can not feel it; some want love and can not find it; some have love and don’t know it.


Some have places they know they belong, are wanted and are cherished, others do not.

Some of the missing love and belonging is only imagined but seems real, and so is real.

We have to learn to love our self first and that can take a life time! We need to forgive our self, get up and go again and this can be tough.


We need to look for the good in us, see our intentions, even when we mess up. Often we are far too hard on our self.


We need to realize if we have one or two good people in our life that we call friend, we are blessed, even if these folks are family, we are blessed and fortunate to someone, even one, that knows us and loves us just as we are and we do the same for them.


Life is a time to learn and grow, to be and become. Hope your holiday season is good and you feel loved and a sense of belonging. If not, I hope you can and will soon.

Love and belonging are so vital for each of us. May we all find it more and more in the coming year and enjoy others. Maybe we be pleasant and enjoyable too

 

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